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最近看了个很火的视频，不到4分钟，却震撼了我的心灵，而这个演讲，也被誉为“今年最好的演讲”。

演讲的前一分钟里，给大家讲述了一个教科书版的完美人生：

18岁成人，22岁大学毕业，25岁工作稳定，30岁之前买房结婚生子，35岁之后人生轨迹就会定型……

但，我们的人生只能选择这样的生活吗？

当然不是。生命的时间表里，每个人都可以选择自己的活法。

不必仰望别人，自己亦是风景。

正如从一分多开始的另一个人演讲：

有的人明明彼此相爱，却没有在一起。

我想说的是：人生中的每一件事都取决于我们自己的时间，你身边有些朋友也许遥遥领先于你，有些朋友也许落后于你，但凡事都有它自己的节奏。

new york is 3 hours ahead of california,

but it does not make california slow.

someone graduated at the age of 22,

but waited 5 years before securing a good job!

someone became a ceo at 25,

and died at 50.

while another became a ceo at 50,

and lived to 90 years.

someone is still single,

while someone else got married.

obama retires at 55,

but trump starts at 70.

absolutely everyone in this world works based on their time zone.

people around you might seem to go ahead of you,

some might seem to be behind you.

but everyone is running their own race, in their own time.

don’t envy them or mock them.

they are in their time zone, and you are in yours!

life is about waiting for the right moment to act.

so, relax.

you’re not late.

you’re not early.

you are very much on time, and in your time zone destiny set up for you.

“25岁后才拿到文凭，依然值得骄傲；30岁没结婚，但过得快乐也是一种成功；35岁之后成家也完全可以；40岁买房也没什么丢脸的。”

因此，无论当下如何，保持一颗平静的心，从容对待，你想要的，终究会来。

就像，姜子牙80岁才挂帅，司马懿60多才受到重用，刘备40多岁才有自己的队伍，所以，一切都不晚，该来的总会来。

相信，一切都是最好的安排。

命运的安排一切都很精准；路是脚踏出来的，历史是人写出来的，人的每一步行动都在书写自己的历史。而生命就是在等待正确的行动时机，所以不用嫉妒或嘲笑他们。

即使你向空谷喊话，也要等一会儿，才会听见那绵长的回音。

《楞严经》上说，“若能转物，则同如来”；无论遇到善缘、逆缘，顺境、逆境，只要你肯等一等，生活的美好，总在你不经意时，盛装莅临。